Three reasons why you don’t get happy

​How Greed, Ingratitude and Lack of sharing are depriving you of happiness 

You’ve just landed a multi-million dollar contract but you see it like a normal feat!

Your business just recorded an 80% profit for the year but all you said was “it could be better”!

You passed all your exams and are topping your class yet you see it as an everyday thing!

You have all the human factors seemingly required to make a happy man but you aren’t happy!


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One Big Reason your so many goals never get accomplished 

​It’s commonplace nowadays to hear someone advice another: “set a goal.” or “Make it a target!”

Goal setting is such an integral part of our everyday lives that gives us a focus, a direction or path to thread.

In my bid to keep up growing and developing (being better day by day), I’ve always been among those who are so eager to set goals but haven’t been on the fortunate side of things when it comes to achieving them. 

Everytime I fail to hit a deadline or attain a goal, I keep asking myself -Why is this so? Why can’t I achieve these goals?

I then found out that it wasn’t my goals that were wrong it was my approach to achieving them that was at fault.

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The one reason your writing is boring

Have you ever cared to ask why some writers churn out page turners while others don’t?

It is commonplace to find the work of a good writer interesting, engaging and awesome in flow.

You find yourself reading such page turners faster.

But what makes a piece great enough to make you turn to the next page without getting tired?

What drives boredom from the writings of some writers?

Well, today I’m going to tell you one major reason writings could turn out boring.

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What is your definition of success?

A few weeks ago I was conversing with a friend whom I hadn’t seen for three years.
After the usual, ‘long time no see’ and ‘how have you been?’ salutations,
he asked me a question – ‘What does success mean to you?’ I was silent for a while and he added, ‘What’s your life target?’
I was dumbfounded by the gravity of the question and couldn’t answer. All through my journey back to school I kept pondering on it – what does success mean to me personally?
I didn’t get to the bottom of it until recently. I now understand what my friend was asking me to do.

What is your definition of success? Via Amoson Writes
Success Definition via Amoson Writes

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Just do it – Nothing else works

The’s something about achieving any task, succeeding over any hurdle or beating any Target. As long as you don’t do it – it doesn’t get done. It remains just another item on your task list.
It is true that for many people there’s nothing more daunting than starting out at a task.

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Writer’s Block – My candid opinion plus A Way out

It’s spoken about frequently whenever writers meet.
You’ve heard of it or might’ve even experienced it.
Some believe it’s not real but just a creation of lazy writers.
Others claim it happens; that it comes and sucks up their zeal leaving them practically word-less and to some extent with no idea!

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One basic truth about making your life count

The issue

There is this certain surge by people today to live a life of purpose. To answer a call to their life’s work (vocation). This increased interest is well reflected in the increasing amount of publications on this subject in recent years. Some of these include Jeff Goins’ Art of work, Frances Okoro’s 10 steps to walking in purpose, Daniel Nicolas’ Innate Abilities, Wilson Biyama’s Purpose, the ultimate pursuit and a host of others. The list is endless. All these are geared towards teaching people to walk in purpose; to live for a cause; to live a life that is worth the days you’ve got; to making your life count.
I know these books had taught you a lot about this subject.
But, the question remains: how exactly do you make your life count? What is the nitty-gritty involved in making your life count?
Well, this post would tell you about a basic truth about this subject.

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Five simple techniques for developing self-confidence

The need

You face this every day. The need to be confident in confronting your problems stand tall among prerequisites for success. You are challenged to chuck off fear and build your confidence. However, the bugging question in this is: how do you do that? How do you gain confidence?

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The one mind-set element you need to always win at the end

Life’s full of ups and downs; pits and peaks; hills and valleys.

Everyday life presents you with a different set of circumstances.

Some good others bad – at least as we view them.

In the light of these as a success minded person you still tend to have bad moments.

Failures.

Yes, you fail at some things.

These failures usually leave you dejected, angry and sometimes even in mourning.

You could be in these state for days or even weeks.

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2016 A New Year – Here’s my article

It is a New Year.

It’s 2016.

Everybody out there is busy wishing. Wishing that 2016 goes successfully, that they get this and that and other cool stuff. Wishing is very good it indicates hope and life.

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But, I want you to see 2016 in another way. In a whole New Perspective.

A New Perspective.

I want you to view the year 2016 as a new book containing 366 pages. You decide what you write on each of those pages. To make 2016 a successful year you need to see each moment as an opportunity. Begin to see the goldmine in every second. Kayode Ajomole of Decounsellor would say “you need to wear an opportunity lens”. The way you look at everyday circumstances determines the way you think about them, the way you act towards them and thus your attitude.

I would like you to remember to :

  1. Set A goal for 2016 for he who fails to plan, plans to fail.
  2. Schedule your tasks to save time.
  3. Prioritize your tasks to save resources.
  4. Be happy and
  5. Be Yourself.

Additionally, you should tag the year – it’s cool. For instance I call 2016

“My year of Multiple Distinctions, Divine Breakthroughs and Continued Excellence.”

So go and have a Happy New Year.

 

Enlist for discovery and you will surely discover

It is a pity to note that many people only realize their potential when they have
already gone a long way in their life. The self discovery period is often a late comer in
the lives of most people. It marvels me when people in this 21st century still hang their
dear lives on some popular quotes like:
“Life begins at forty (40)”.
Everybody knows that this is an old charges. Today I got a new charge for
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How to handle lots of work through multitasking

Introduction

In a world where we all have targets to reach and goals to attain, it is common sight to find one person with lots of things to do. The reason why tasks are enormous can’t be far from the goals we have as individual and businesses thus the amount of work load depends on our target. For instance students have the challenge of balancing attendance to class and studying their books alongside their social life. Some people work in two or more different places aiming at income boost this also explains why Continue reading